Love? Does it really exist?

We spend most of our life going crazy trying to find that one person who fits into our life. We go through partners and relationships hoping that the next person will be one to stay with you forever, but is there really that "one" person out there? Girls are more likely to go crazy then men are, we live our lives hoping to find the prince charming that'll sweep us off our feet and give us the fairy tale ending we all grew up reading. We (girls) put so much pressure on guys to change into the perfect gentlemen, the kind of guy who can support them and be their stable rock. Yet there are many guys who don't want to conform into this prince charming, they're all about getting money and fucken bitches. Yes thats fun and all, but in time they will have to settle down and make something of themselves, I know its scary but you cant possibly think that life is all about drinking, smoking, having sex with multiple partners, and only caring about yourself. Girls want the big wedding, with the even bigger ring, or the grand wedding dress that'll make other girls turn green with envy. We set such high standards which is good, yet it makes it hard for them to find someone who they can be compatible with. Relationships are not meant to be about the perfect guy, its about growing together and figuring out each others faults and overcoming obstacles together. Relationships are about growing and falling in love with each other everyday. This may sound all mushy and too lovey dovey, but it's true. I personally think that there is one person who was born to be with you, but there are others who can take his place and do the job as your soulmate.
Marriage is an expensive piece of paper, but it's a commitment that seems to terrify the whole male race. Its about raising a family and having a life companion. Can we say that this is easy? Hell no it's not easy, if it was everyone would be in a happy marriage with the one they love. I feel like people try and look for this person, but looking will only just get us someone who isnt worth our time. Sending out positive vibes will get us postive outcomes in return. My friend always used to tell me to stop looking and just let it come to me, and I strongly believe that is true because whenever I wasn't looking, an amazing guy would come along and sweep me off my feet. Currently I am single, and I love it except there are days when I want a companion, but it's the thought of heartbreak that always stops me from pursuing anything furthur. I also enjoy my freedom as an independant girl who is not defined by a relationship. Pushing boundaries is what I'm good at, I like to see what guys are made of. Double standards do not exist to me
I watch girls go through tons of heartbreak, they deal with their significant other cheating yet they just turn the other way hoping things will change. Girls lets stop holding onto something thats not going to work out, just walk away cause believe me, there are good guys out there. I know guys don't want to be compared to others, so stop judging them before you get to know them. No one likes to be judged and perceived as something they're not. Stop making believe your relationship is amazing when it's not, cause the more you ignore it, the worse it is going to get. Pull yourself away before things get really out of hand. There comes a time when you have to call it quits, when a line is crossed and your own self respect should help you walk away. I know it's hard to let go of something that means a lot to you, but the heartbreak from a bad break up is worse. Its better to be single than having to deal with bullshit; being single is not so bad, it's a time for you to learn what you want and what you deserve. Being single is not the end of the world, you learn to love yourself again and gain your independence again, how is that so bad? Girls, don't be scared to let go, you only get one chance at life, so don't let a boy hold you down.

Making up is the best part.

Everyone fights in relationships, it's supposedly what makes you stronger as a  couple when you can overcome obstacles together. Many times the fights are about nothing, like how messy your mans room is or how he didn't get you the right brand of tampons. When couples fight, usually the anger that they have comes out and is very detrimental to the success of the relationship. I say instead of yelling and bickering, just go straight to the make up sex; no ifs ands or buts. Take out all that anger and frustration in the bedroom where there are no rules except no violence unless of the course the girl is down for that kind of thing. How many times have girls picked fights for no reason, and the only thing you can do is just think about how good the make up sex is going to be? I know lots of girls pick fights just for the makeup sex including myself. We'll put you down, say some ruthless things, tell you how your wack in bed, and how you can get better if he doesn't do the job; while these things are being said, women want to see how you'll react and usually guys get the hint, but for those who don't, just go up to her and bend her over the closest stable object you see and let loose. 

We can't pick and choose our fights, but we can make the fighting worth it. I'm not saying for you to go and fight about anything that ticks you off, but sometimes fighting is healthy. Communication is key, without communication your relationship will fail. Whenever there is something left to say, the emotions that come along with it begins to fester which only leads to the outburst of anger or frustration causing you to fight with your partner; to avoid this, just talk about it. I know guys hate sitting down and talking about feelings, but  sometimes it'll be very beneficial if you try at least to talk about things without losing your temper. The more you talk about things, the easier it will be to get over fights and get down to the fun stuff, which doesn't always have to take part in the bedroom; it could happen on the dining room table, on top of the counter, up against your book case, etc. Boys its really not that hard to get your dick wet, all you really have to do is pretend you care, listen for important key points and say I'm sorry at least 5 times in one sentence oh and you have to keep saying that the girl is right.

 It was nuttin I can do about it, like she the boss and shit

Started talkin this divorcin shit

I gave her half my rib, half my crib, half my cake 

Half my car, half my kids. Can't get that 

Tried to swing on the God, had to dip that

Yo, push her on the bed, lift her leg, had to rip that

All she wanted was rough sex, with her slick ass

Had to sit back, smoke a blunt and just look 

With her fine-ass body and a damn good cook

For some reason yo she had me stuck and I had her in my web too

You my queen God bless you