just ranting.

1. When did it become okay for girls to waste their time in meaningless relationships?
2. If you died tomorrow, would you be okay with not telling the person you love how you feel?
3. Who's a virgin nowadays?
4. Prostitots?!
5. Is it so hard to call just once? or a quick hey text?
6. Does putting a girl last make you feel better?
7. Lust vs. Love? Do you give or take?
8. Don't ever let words of affection go unsaid.
9. Open your eyes! Hello!
10. Why is it that girls can't handle criticism, yet they're the first to criticize.
11. Insomnia is a fucken bitch.
12. Forehead kisses are pretty fucken amazing.
13. Go deep!
14. Dance wherever you are, who the fuck cares if you look crazy!
15. Don't make silly mistakes in the present cause you fucked up in the past.
16. There's a reason why they're your ex.
17. Pictures of baby animals will make anyone smile.
18. Cuddling
19. Big spoon vs. Little spoon.
20. Never let her cry alone.

Usually I don't do this, but recently I've had a lot on my mind; stressed would be the right word. I can say one thing I've been happier, but to the point that I'm scared because things change so quickly. You want to know what really pisses me off? Well let me tell you, I HATE when a man can't respond back; I understand you're busy or whatever, but a simple hey will suffice. Stop trying to make excuses for something so simple! It really doesn't take much to please a girl, hello! she gives you signals all the time, but guys are just too stupid to see them. If you're in a relationship and your man has no time for you whatsoever, why are you with him? Do you like having the title so much that you'll sacrifice your own happiness for a "man"? Oh and you're too good to get jealous? Don't you get it? Jealousy to girls means a guy actually cares about them. Just because you show a little affection doesn't mean anything, it's about communication and trust. Girls hope for so much, but we just set ourselves up for disappointment. I understand some guys are just not good in the romance department, but at least make an effort. I truly abhor a man who says he's not a relationship guy or that he's given up on relationships because every girl is different, just because you're ex hurt you doesn't mean the next girl will do the same. Guys are such pussies, they can't handle anything especially when it involves a girl; thats probably why they say girl's are too complicated to hide the fact that they really aren't as manly as they say they are. A man is willing to give up everything he has with his girl, just for a quickie with a some girl whose name you don't even know? That really boggles my mind. How can you look her in the eyes and say you love her, then go stick your dick in a girl who means nothing to you? Is it really worth it? Just for once, think before you speak and don't let her go if she makes you happy.

A girl should always be happy, not exceedingly and annoying happy, but content with what her life is like at any given moment cause life is too fucken short for nonsense and drama. Who cares if your shoes don't match your shirt? Who cares if some girl called you a whore? Cause it takes one to know one. Who the fuck cares if you don't wear make up? Natural beauty is everything, caking on pounds of makeup is not sexy. Girls, don't ever be ashamed to admit that he hurt you cause we've all been there before; admit the pain, and begin to heal. Don't ever think you're not good enough cause you'll end up settling for something less than what you truly deserve. Most of the time, your friends are right; don't ignore what they say, for once just listen. A friend should not judge nor repeat what they heard; they should be there no matter the situation. A true friend does not ever leave your life, they will never bad mouth you even when angry, they will never bring you down, but instead they will be your greatest cheerleaders.

What is up with all these social networks and the drama they cause? Really, you're angry cause you think someone wrote a subliminal tweet about you, so you spend all day subliminally tweeting back to them? Oh you saw a picture of your friend hanging out with someone you don't like, so you can't be friends with them? Social networks are going to destroy human relationships; it's going to prevent people from trusting each other. Stop with the subliminal messages, just say what you need to say and stop hiding behind a computer screen. Just because they wrote it, does not mean it is about you, unless you did really do something and it's your guilty conscious.Oh and facebook now has a page called "exposing smuts" wow really? I'm pretty sure you weren't calling those girls smuts when you were begging them for sexy pictures; You mad cause she doesn't want you anymore? I'm pretty sure the same guys putting up the pictures of these "smuts" are the same  ones sitting in front of their computers jerking off.

Click Click.

The dream of ways to see you, I could close my eyes to dream. Fantasize about this with you, but the way is never seen, so take a dirty picture for me.

Nowadays with all these camera phones, it's easier to please a man. It can start with a simple picture of your face, then your upper body, then the full frontal. Some take it to the extreme and take pornographic pictures, but that's okay because its about spicing up the relationship. I know there are plenty of girls who send naked pictures of themselves to random guys hoping for attention, that's when things go a little too far; it just means you have no respect for yourself. Sending an occasional sexy picture is always a great idea, it helps your partner crave your body on top of his and he can see what he's coming home to. I'm sure 90% of guys have asked their significant other to send them a sexy picture, especially when it's late at night and he's all alone; what a perfect time to pull out that camera and click away. When I say a sexy picture, I'm not talking about girls doing a spread eagle while fingering themselves, I'm talking about maybe a full frontal with you blowing kisses; if done in a tasteful manner, pictures can be a great source of entertainment between couples.

Pictures are great, but if you want to be even more adventurous, pull out that video camera. Filming your sex life can be a great way to add some excitement in your relationship. When filming, it's like you're in a different world, you can get out of your comfort zone and try things that you've always wanted to do. When that little red light comes on, it means for you to play into the role of a naughty school girl, or a sexy librarian, or the submissive housewife. A great thing about recording ones sex life, you're able to watch it over and over and find ways to improve on different moves and really see what you look like during sex. Video taping sex is also very risky, especially if there's a bad breakup or it gets stolen, but sometimes you just have to overlook it and like Nike says "Just do it." Live without fear cause you only live life once, there are no re-dos, so have fun and experiment, it never hurts to just try.

Can I hit in the morning?

Sun rising while you moanin. 

We all know about the "morning wood" that guys get when they wake up, but people never really take advantage of it when they're sleeping with someone. The morning is the best time to have sex, you're energized and it'll have you smiling throughout the day. Before you hop into the shower to start your day, take a few minutes and take advantage of the flagpole in your man's boxers, it's ready to go and trust me it's worth the time. When you have good morning sex, you think about it all day, the flashes of intense pleasure makes you randomly smile, which may or may not be a good thing; but who the fuck cares? You'll have chills just thinking about the moment when he goes in deep or when he's making you scream. The morning is the best time to have sex because you're stress free, you're relaxed, so you can enjoy the sensations even more. Now that it's summertime, morning sex is great for exercise cause you end up sweating profusely cause of the weather. Girls who don't like to work out or do any kind of physical activity, I suggest you have a lot of sex this summer cause sex is the easiest form of exercise and it'll help you keep your bathing suit body. Ladies, your man probably has such a strong hard on in the morning that he can pole vault outta bed, imagine what he could for you; the stroke would be out of the world!

With the warm weather, don't be afraid to try new places outside; it is risky, but who doesn't like some danger in their lives? Having sex outside is so liberating, and the experience of being surrounded by nature is a huge plus while you're doing the deed especially during the sunrise/sunset or under the stars. Guys need to understand they need to put in work, its not just a one two pump and you're done; take your time, explore her body, time is not important, so don't think and just do. If you do have sex outside, the best time is during the sun rise, it's almost as if your intertwined bodies are waking up the world and if you have a view of the sunrise, it's breathe taking. So go out, make this summer memorable and enjoy the fucken weather!

Giddy up cowgirl

"Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere."

Girls ride mechanical bulls hoping to stay on for more than 5 seconds, but as you watch how their body sways with the bull; you can't help but wonder how that would feel if instead of a bull she was riding, it was you. Sometimes, us girls need to take the initiative and take control because we're the only ones who know what we want. It gives us the chance to torture and tease our men even more then we do outside the bedroom. Being on top can sometimes be stressful for girls because we tend to over-think our motions and are too stiff; just relax and ride. Many girls don't like being on top because we like our men to be in control, but sometimes you have to compromise and let him lay on his back and have him grip your body as you ride him. Being on top for a girl is definitely worth it because the penetration is deeper, and you control when your man is going to cum. What girl doesn't like to be in charge?

Girls, if you want to have really great sex, you need to do your kegels! It is the tightening of the vaginal muscles, and it is useful during sex. When he enters, you can tighten your vaginal muscle and when he pulls out, you can release. Switch it up and it'll be a new experience for your man; also he'll enjoy the tightness of your vagina. If you don't know how to do a kegel, well it's easy. Have you ever had to pee and you have to hold it in? well it's exactly like that, but you hold that feeling for 5 seconds then release, but make sure you don't have to use the bathroom cause that'll just be a disastrous experience. What man wants a loose vagina? It just makes you look bad, and the sex even worse. It's the summer time, you're going to have multiple partners, so why not practice? By the end of the summer, maybe you'll become a sex goddess!

Love? Does it really exist?

We spend most of our life going crazy trying to find that one person who fits into our life. We go through partners and relationships hoping that the next person will be one to stay with you forever, but is there really that "one" person out there? Girls are more likely to go crazy then men are, we live our lives hoping to find the prince charming that'll sweep us off our feet and give us the fairy tale ending we all grew up reading. We (girls) put so much pressure on guys to change into the perfect gentlemen, the kind of guy who can support them and be their stable rock. Yet there are many guys who don't want to conform into this prince charming, they're all about getting money and fucken bitches. Yes thats fun and all, but in time they will have to settle down and make something of themselves, I know its scary but you cant possibly think that life is all about drinking, smoking, having sex with multiple partners, and only caring about yourself. Girls want the big wedding, with the even bigger ring, or the grand wedding dress that'll make other girls turn green with envy. We set such high standards which is good, yet it makes it hard for them to find someone who they can be compatible with. Relationships are not meant to be about the perfect guy, its about growing together and figuring out each others faults and overcoming obstacles together. Relationships are about growing and falling in love with each other everyday. This may sound all mushy and too lovey dovey, but it's true. I personally think that there is one person who was born to be with you, but there are others who can take his place and do the job as your soulmate.
Marriage is an expensive piece of paper, but it's a commitment that seems to terrify the whole male race. Its about raising a family and having a life companion. Can we say that this is easy? Hell no it's not easy, if it was everyone would be in a happy marriage with the one they love. I feel like people try and look for this person, but looking will only just get us someone who isnt worth our time. Sending out positive vibes will get us postive outcomes in return. My friend always used to tell me to stop looking and just let it come to me, and I strongly believe that is true because whenever I wasn't looking, an amazing guy would come along and sweep me off my feet. Currently I am single, and I love it except there are days when I want a companion, but it's the thought of heartbreak that always stops me from pursuing anything furthur. I also enjoy my freedom as an independant girl who is not defined by a relationship. Pushing boundaries is what I'm good at, I like to see what guys are made of. Double standards do not exist to me
I watch girls go through tons of heartbreak, they deal with their significant other cheating yet they just turn the other way hoping things will change. Girls lets stop holding onto something thats not going to work out, just walk away cause believe me, there are good guys out there. I know guys don't want to be compared to others, so stop judging them before you get to know them. No one likes to be judged and perceived as something they're not. Stop making believe your relationship is amazing when it's not, cause the more you ignore it, the worse it is going to get. Pull yourself away before things get really out of hand. There comes a time when you have to call it quits, when a line is crossed and your own self respect should help you walk away. I know it's hard to let go of something that means a lot to you, but the heartbreak from a bad break up is worse. Its better to be single than having to deal with bullshit; being single is not so bad, it's a time for you to learn what you want and what you deserve. Being single is not the end of the world, you learn to love yourself again and gain your independence again, how is that so bad? Girls, don't be scared to let go, you only get one chance at life, so don't let a boy hold you down.

Making up is the best part.

Everyone fights in relationships, it's supposedly what makes you stronger as a  couple when you can overcome obstacles together. Many times the fights are about nothing, like how messy your mans room is or how he didn't get you the right brand of tampons. When couples fight, usually the anger that they have comes out and is very detrimental to the success of the relationship. I say instead of yelling and bickering, just go straight to the make up sex; no ifs ands or buts. Take out all that anger and frustration in the bedroom where there are no rules except no violence unless of the course the girl is down for that kind of thing. How many times have girls picked fights for no reason, and the only thing you can do is just think about how good the make up sex is going to be? I know lots of girls pick fights just for the makeup sex including myself. We'll put you down, say some ruthless things, tell you how your wack in bed, and how you can get better if he doesn't do the job; while these things are being said, women want to see how you'll react and usually guys get the hint, but for those who don't, just go up to her and bend her over the closest stable object you see and let loose. 

We can't pick and choose our fights, but we can make the fighting worth it. I'm not saying for you to go and fight about anything that ticks you off, but sometimes fighting is healthy. Communication is key, without communication your relationship will fail. Whenever there is something left to say, the emotions that come along with it begins to fester which only leads to the outburst of anger or frustration causing you to fight with your partner; to avoid this, just talk about it. I know guys hate sitting down and talking about feelings, but  sometimes it'll be very beneficial if you try at least to talk about things without losing your temper. The more you talk about things, the easier it will be to get over fights and get down to the fun stuff, which doesn't always have to take part in the bedroom; it could happen on the dining room table, on top of the counter, up against your book case, etc. Boys its really not that hard to get your dick wet, all you really have to do is pretend you care, listen for important key points and say I'm sorry at least 5 times in one sentence oh and you have to keep saying that the girl is right.

 It was nuttin I can do about it, like she the boss and shit

Started talkin this divorcin shit

I gave her half my rib, half my crib, half my cake 

Half my car, half my kids. Can't get that 

Tried to swing on the God, had to dip that

Yo, push her on the bed, lift her leg, had to rip that

All she wanted was rough sex, with her slick ass

Had to sit back, smoke a blunt and just look 

With her fine-ass body and a damn good cook

For some reason yo she had me stuck and I had her in my web too

You my queen God bless you 

Rough sex. Say no more.

No girl wants to have sappy sex, I don't give a fuck if you're a "good" girl or the most open bitch. Every girl is a fan of rough sex, the type of sex that makes your toes curl every time you think about it. I bet you have a smirk on your face just thinking about the best sex you've ever had, the kind that you can never get enough of. The best sex, is always rough sex; no rules or small talk, get down to business and let go of all inhibitions. No matter what any girl says, they enjoy getting their hair pulled, getting their ass smacked and the raking of the nails down their partners back. I shudder to think that people actually want to "make love" which, to me consists of a man gently caressing the girls face, holding hands, gazing into each others eyes, whispering sweet nothings in their ear, cumming rainbows and butterflies... FUCK THAT, you know damn well that is not what you want. Women are independent, we control our own lives, so when it comes to the bedroom, we want someone else to take control and be in charge, I'm not saying ALL girls are women and I'm not saying ALL women are independent, but the majority that are don't want a man who can't handle his own in the sheets. Women are freaks, just as much as men are; the difference is that women prefer to keep their thoughts to themselves and save it for the right time to keep a man interested. Rough sex is the best kind because it gives you a sense of power, the sense of being able to take control of someone else's body and releasing all your frustrations and anxieties. Don't get me wrong, I'm not condoning physical abuse, I just think that it's important to have some fun during such a sensual act; stop being uptight and break rules. I'm sure every girl who has had sex has had that mind blowing sex, that made their bed and walls shake; the kind of sex that make your legs shake, the kind that make it hard for you to walk after, or when all you want to do is just light up a cigarette and savor the moment. Guys please understand that girls can handle a lot of things, and dick is just part of the list.

I'm not saying there aren't any emotions during sex nor am I saying that sex shouldn't be romantic. Sex is a very personal action for most girls, it makes us emotionally and physically more attached to our partner, which can leave us vulnerable to heartbreak. Women and men are different when it comes to the act of having sex; the guy just wants to get in and out, while the girl wants a connection. To girls, sex changes everything and it makes us crazy, sometimes we become a completely different, which can turn a man off. We get too attached and forget who we were before the initial penetration. Men are different, they have sex then they get bored and go creeping for the next prey. They treat sex as a game, and each girl they have sex with is a trophy or a medal depending how it was. There are those girls who don't catch feelings and have the mentality of a man; it prevents them from getting hurt, but of course due to the double standard, those girls would be called sluts. (Oh the double standard) Sex, oh how those three letters affect a person so much. It's time for tables to turn, scripts to get flipped and for guys to get familiar with being used as well.

Big balls and hair=fail.

Big balls? What a turnoff. If you have big balls, you may just want to close this entry before your feelings get hurt. 

No girl likes seeing a pair of balls that make your dick look like the size of a pez dispenser, it's not attractive and it gets in the way. When a girl cups a guys testicles, they should fit perfectly in their hands without bulging or overflowing out their hands, it's gross and creepy. Don't get me wrong though, it's not okay to have balls the size of peas. I know girls who have had sex with guys with gigantic balls that would hit their ass during doggie or tap their lower region as the guy is thrusting; this is not fun for us girls, it's annoying and it's a bit awkward.  I know you can't help the size and what not, but seriously it is really detrimental to the whole act of sex. Balls are supposed to be strangely cute and proportional with the penis, but for some it seems that they were just cursed. Another thing is if your balls are really goddamn hairy, PLEASE keep your boxers or briefs or whatever on during sex. It's one thing if you have gigantic balls, but it's just a major fail if you have hairy ones as well.

If girls have to keep themselves waxed, trimmed, shaved or whatever I feel like boys should do the same. I'm not saying guys should go out and get their balls waxed, but please trim. No girl wants to give a guy head, when he has a bush and you can barely see their dick and hair in the mouth is a huge NO NO. It's not hard to keep your area clean down there, just take a pair of clippers and trim a little; if girls have to go through pain and wax, then guys should have some decency to do a little cleanup job. I can understand if you have unexpected sex, but if you know ahead of time, why is it so hard to just clean yourself up? I'm sure there are girls who likes a bush, just like there are guys who like bushes;  but a majority would like a nicely trimmed area.

Size Vs. Motion?

"It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean," 

Whoever said that first must've been having sex with someone who has a small dick and didn't want to offend them. I'm sorry, no one likes to have sex with a man who is not well endowed, if you think otherwise then maybe it's time for you to strive for bigger things. Yes, it is very important for the stroke to be on point, but if you can't feel it then the motion is worthless. I'm not saying that having a big dick is enough, but it's important that you have the size to back up your stroke, like Ice Cube says "you can do it, just put your back into it." When I say your stroke needs to be on point, it doesn't mean in, out, in, out, nut, pull out then lay back; I'm talking about the clockwise and counterclockwise motion of your hips, working the angles, and hitting all the right spots.

Personally speaking, someone who is not well endowed is really disappointing especially when you've been looking forward to doing the nasty or whatever slang term there is for sex. Another thing that really pisses me off is when guys hype up their so called "package" especially when they have nothing to show for it. People sometimes say sex isn't everything, and those people are the ones sitting at home watching porn or hitting on every single person they see. Ladies, how many times did you get involved with a guy who said things like "I'll be the best you've ever had," "I can make any girl cum," "I got that dope dick," and many more. Stop with your lines and just show us what you got, we don't want to hear all that nonsense; the silent ones are always the best ones. Leave the talking to your man downstairs who can get the job done. 

Team Big Dick. 

Can I get a moan please?

A simple moan will suffice; people keep that in mind when you're doing the deed please. What person wants to have sex with a person who doesn't make any noise in bed, I'm not saying you need to start howling or yelling on top of your lungs, but a simple moan or repeating your partners name will do. When you enjoy something, don't you want to let people know? What is so different in the bedroom? If you like the way your partner is thrusting, wrap your legs around them and say their name to let them know you want more; it can't hurt, it'll actually make the moment even more pleasurable for both people involved. Being silent during sex, is like having sex with a dildo; it gets the job done and doesn't say a word. I know guys don't want to be "gay" and start moaning in front of the girl, but a grunt or a oh yeah or maybe just pulling your partner in deeper is good enough; let them know you're enjoying it because it's a little offensive to the person your having sex with.

I personally do not want to have sex with a guy who does not say a word because then the whole deed becomes awkward and boring, but I don't like a man who can't shut the fuck up, so be careful how you approach dirty talk. Dirty talk is not against the law, don't be scared to ask for what you want and if they're hitting the spot let them know!  When has honesty been such a taboo? If you don't like what your partners doing, shift your body or tell them to do something else; there is nothing worse than having BAD sex. Girls tend to need or want validation, so when they see that the man is enjoying himself so much that he can't even suppress a moan, its gratifying and makes us want to have sex with you as much as possible. No one wants to hear only themselves while having sex, it makes them feel self conscious and also sex is not a one man job (figuratively). 

Sex should be about mutual attraction (excluding the times you're not sober) and it should be passionate. It's not all about how hard you can bang out the chick or how many condoms you can go through (if you are using one), it's about the way you work those hips, make it known that you're enjoying the experience. Men don't be ashamed to make some noise in the bedroom, spice shit up cause it's fucken sexy.

Devil in plain clothes.

Boys cheat and Girls Manipulate  

Can we really categorize all genders into such broad categories? Girl's do the funniest things when they are in love, which can come across as crazy for some men. Girls love to test their partners patience, their intelligence, and their ability to please. We never want to be wrong, so fellas whenever you get into a fight with a girl, just tell them they're right; you can't lose.  When a girl says "I'm fine" it does not mean she's fine, it means the complete opposite; sometimes boys forget that and let it go which of course causes the girl to get even more angrier. If a girl tells you once, you may want to get to it or else they will start nagging till your ears bleed. 

 Girls stop talking in code! Boys are not psychic, if you want something tell them.

How many times have you sat at home going insane because your partner said they'll call but didn't? Or made thought out plans, only for them to forget? Or something so simple as forgetting your birthday or anniversary (not the bullshit monthly anniversary, I'm talking about the 6 month or yearly anniversary)? We've all done it before, whether you're the only gentleman left in the world or a heartbreaker.

Yes girls are VERY emotional, sometimes girls should be ashamed of their actions. We have to wonder, what made us this way? Why can't we just let things go? and do we really need a man's opinion to be satisfied with ourselves? When did the female population become so dependent on a man's opinion? It's okay to not cake your face with a pound of makeup; it's okay to not spend hours doing your hair; it's okay to not wear ridiculously tight clothes; and it's okay to be yourself.  Girls have begun to demoralize themselves to get the attention of a man, who'll only use them then leave them. 

 I can understand when a guy says girls are crazy because I know a few of them, and honestly I've done some outrageous things. I know girls are guilty of calling at least 20 times back to back if their partner doesn't pick up on the first ring. Girl's have creeped in their partners phone, reading their texts, their emails, hacking into their Facebook, or even erasing girl's numbers from their phones. God forbid a girl finds anything, their partner better be ready to face the devil in the flesh.

Females are known to pick fights about everything, even the most miniscule things such as how the guy eats or not being able to pick a place to eat. Another thing girls don't understand is how important sports is to a man, so when they are watching sports just sit their quietly and don't EVER say "it's just a game" because to them its life or death.

But enough exposing girls faults, boys have some major faults of their own. Boys are known to only care about their clothes, cars, or VIDEO GAMES; is Black Opps going to have sex with you? Is Kobe Bryant going to come through the screen and hang out with you? Do those imaginary guns make you feel like a man? Don't say you'll call and then don't because girls do really wait on that phone call. Be respectful; chivalry can still exist, as long as someone still holds doors for a girl or brings them flowers just because its a wednesday. Guys don't know how to stay faithful anymore, it's all about how many girls they can bring home or how many girls they "bag," its shameful. And it is NOT okay to have sex with smuts, it is not cool.

Now enough bashing on the male and female population, everyone go out and fornicate ;]

I never said there was anything wrong in having a little fun, summer is right around the corner; how can I not condone some fun?

I'm cumming, I'm cumming..... SIKE

Now now girls, I know we've all done this before. Why lie? We've all been in the position (literally) when a guy has asked us the typical "oh you like that baby?" and while we answer with a moan or an excited "yes yes yes!" .....

Sometimes we're really thinking "how much longer?"*yawn.* Now ladies, I'm talking about the fake orgasms we are all guilty of doing at least once in our sexual past, whether due to bad sex or just not being into it; and don't pretend you've never yelled out "I'm cumming,"  knowing it was a lie, but really wishing it was true? Don't cover your face in shame honey, you're not alone. I myself have been guilty of "faking an orgasm" but does that make me a bad person?  I know we've all been in the middle of sex, and the time to debut your acting skills get closer and closer; we start with the heavy breathing, the grasping of the sheets, the moaning, and then BAM! the finale-----> the clenching of the vaginal muscles. After that kind of performance, you should be in the same circle as Natalie Portman, Sandra Bullock, Halle Barry etc. So where is your oscar trophy?!
It's strange to hear that sometimes guys fake orgasms; now us females don't understand how thats possible since all guys want to do is get their nut off so when that is not achieved, we may start to think that the guy may have "problems" down there (YIKES!) If a man does not achieve orgasm, don't they get that awful feeling of blue balls? 
*Blue balls*:  the excrutiating pain a man receives when his balls swell to the size of coconuts because of lack of sex, unfinished bjs, and just not cummin when he knows he should. 

Reasons why we fake orgasms:

It's just not up to par

Not sober

Partner isn't that attractive

You're just not into it

Tired from a long day

Having too much sex

No excitement 

We feel bad

Men's thoughts about the act of faking an orgasm, whether they've done it and why.

J.Q : I definitely have faked an orgasm before when the bitch was just too wack or just to get the girl to leave. I feel like girls do it (faking an orgasm) so much better then guys, but I feel like a lot of girls front and they fake cause they want to make you look stupid

J.N : I don't know, I think usually girls fake it more often than guys. I don't have a problem with it thought, sex is sex.. Now whether it's good sex that's a different story. And no I never faked it.

J.G : I never have but if you're faking and orgasm, you need to find another sex partner that knows how to give it to you good. Also if your partner isn't making you cum, it's just going to lead you to cheat. I don't care what anyone says, sex is important!

D.C : I've never faked a nut and I feel like girls shouldn't either. If you're having sex with a guy, you should trust them enough to tell them the truth about faking the orgasm.

H.E :A fake orgasm is a turnoff from the start, I mean it's not hard to tell when a girl is having a fake orgasm. I don't think it is possible for a guy to fake an orgasm.

C.B : I've faked it before cause I was just having sex sex sex and she wanted more, so I wasn't going to nut for 45 minutes. 

J.S : I don't fake orgasms, I never have, that's kind of impossible.

Women's thoughts about the act of faking an orgasm, whether they've done it and why.

M.R : Yes i've done it, there were several reasons. One, cause the sex was wack and wanted him to hurry up. Two, cause no matter what he did he couldn't get me to that point and I felt bad so I faked it. I don't think that a woman should feel they have to fake it, but damn men make us fake it.

K.B : I've done it because they're putting in so much work I don't want them to feel like their failing. I just think of the quote "faking and orgasm is better than having any at all cause your not the only person in the room." 

L.S : If you have to fake an orgasm, you should not be having sex. Yes, i've had some bad sex, I did it cause I felt bad, I did it to satisfy him. I was having a stressful day that day.

M.R : Yeah, I've faked plenty of orgasms. I did it because it was really good, but it did not get me to that certain point so instead of making the guy feel bad, I just faked it. Sometimes you just have to do it.

Memory is like an orgasm. It's a lot better if you don't have to fake it.

Sex please?

How can one decide what their favorite part about sex is? All of it is great. Yet there are certain  key points during this intimate moment that arouses men and women to the point of no return; pun intended. Men these days are all about bettering themselves, yet it seems things are different in the beduior. No matter how much a man says "fuck bitches" "bitches ain't shit" "girls are all whores" they still make the girl the first priority when it comes to sex. Whether your having a one night stand, "making love", or just doing it recreationally; we just cant get enough of the act of having sex.

Some opinions from the public on their favorite part: 

J.D (male) : "Making a girl cum, seeing her get excited makes me want to fuck harder, be more aggressive."

J.S (male) : "Finishing. Knowing the other person is enjoying it."

K.P (female) : "Hearing her moan, her face, her grabbing me."

K.L (male) : "Feeling victorious like I conquered something. Making her feel good."

M.R (female) : "The closeness that you feel with the person. Cumming."

J.T (male) : " I gotta say being able to see and know that the girl is enjoying it, the more she enjoys it the crazier everything gets and more intense."
M.K (male) : "When your partner climaxes/orgasms, or the initial penetration."
B.S (male): "The feeling afterwards. Like when you have intense sex that shit is great. That stress free feeling you get."
D.T (female) : "I like that it can be whatever you want; fun, wild, sweet, passionate, stress reliever, time killer. Whatever the hell mood your in, it can suit your needs, you can do it whenever and it's always awesome. There's too many things to narrow it down."
K.M (female) : "Foreplay, initial insertion, and climax."
F.H (female) : "At the very beginning when you don't even know what you're doing. You just know you want that person and your mind and body is set on that."

When you know it is mind blowing sex, all you can really say is "Can I have some more please?"

Sex is not the answer, sex is the question and "yes" is the answer.