Can I get a moan please?
A simple moan will suffice; people keep that in mind when you're doing the deed please. What person wants to have sex with a person who doesn't make any noise in bed, I'm not saying you need to start howling or yelling on top of your lungs, but a simple moan or repeating your partners name will do. When you enjoy something, don't you want to let people know? What is so different in the bedroom? If you like the way your partner is thrusting, wrap your legs around them and say their name to let them know you want more; it can't hurt, it'll actually make the moment even more pleasurable for both people involved. Being silent during sex, is like having sex with a dildo; it gets the job done and doesn't say a word. I know guys don't want to be "gay" and start moaning in front of the girl, but a grunt or a oh yeah or maybe just pulling your partner in deeper is good enough; let them know you're enjoying it because it's a little offensive to the person your having sex with.
I personally do not want to have sex with a guy who does not say a word because then the whole deed becomes awkward and boring, but I don't like a man who can't shut the fuck up, so be careful how you approach dirty talk. Dirty talk is not against the law, don't be scared to ask for what you want and if they're hitting the spot let them know! When has honesty been such a taboo? If you don't like what your partners doing, shift your body or tell them to do something else; there is nothing worse than having BAD sex. Girls tend to need or want validation, so when they see that the man is enjoying himself so much that he can't even suppress a moan, its gratifying and makes us want to have sex with you as much as possible. No one wants to hear only themselves while having sex, it makes them feel self conscious and also sex is not a one man job (figuratively).
Sex should be about mutual attraction (excluding the times you're not sober) and it should be passionate. It's not all about how hard you can bang out the chick or how many condoms you can go through (if you are using one), it's about the way you work those hips, make it known that you're enjoying the experience. Men don't be ashamed to make some noise in the bedroom, spice shit up cause it's fucken sexy.
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